Aunt Eva
Speaking of great aunts, and I was post or two ago, I had a
great Aunt Eva when I was growing up.
She was my dad’s aunt. She lived
with my dad’s sister, Aunt Helen Rita. I
was pretty young and I don’t remember the family dynamic that caused her to
live with Aunt Helen Rita, I just know she did.
She took sugar pills for her diabetic condition and later in life Aunt
Helen Rita gave her insulin shots.
I loved her tremendously.
She would come and visit for a few weeks in the summer. On occasion she would call a yellow cab and
take me with her downtown to Scott’s 5 & 10. It was a great store, very large to little
old me and we would shop for a time and then she would have the manager of the
store call for a cab and he’d get a chair so she could sit by the side door to
wait for the taxi to pick us up for the return trip. I remember her getting testy with a cab
driver because he was charging full fair for both of us to go the 3 mile trip
to downtown Akron. She argued that I was
only a little girl and she should not have to pay more than 50¢ to get us both
there. I don’t know who won, I just
remember the exchange. She was such a
gentle lady it surprises me she had such a strong personality.
She would tickle me half to death when it was bed time and I
would giggle myself to sleep and wake up to another glorious day with her. Those were the best times.
She was a widow and had no children, but living with my Aunt
Helen Rita meant she also lived with my cousin, Elaine. Elaine was a few years younger than me and I
was so jealous of her having Aunt Eva to herself all the rest of the year. I stayed for one overnight visit there, but I
must have had severe separation anxiety at that young age because I remember
mom coming to get me in the middle of the night because I could not stop crying
I was so homesick. I don’t remember ever spending another night there.
All my female relatives did hand work of various kinds and
Aunt Eva made the most wonderful pillow covers on gingham fabric.
She used embroidery floss and made spider web
designs over sections of squares.
I don’t know what the technique is called and
I have never seen it in a book. I’m sure
I gushed over them enough as a little girl to actually get one as a gift. I
still have it in my cedar chest which is full of linens female relatives of
mine made during a time when women would make special gifts for a young girl’s hope
chest.
I did learn how to be a great aunt from the best.